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Kenneth Paul Fleischman

Posted on 11 October 2013


Kenneth (Kenny) Paul Fleischman, 77, passed away on September 11, 2013. He was born on April 16, 1936 in the Bronx and as a child raised in Oceanside, Long Island. In 1966 he bought the SOS gas station in Sag Harbor on the Bridgehampton Sag Harbor Turnpike later know as Sag Harbor Service, KPF Automotive and Gulf. He ran the gas station for nearly 40 years before retiring.

Mr. Fleischman truly loved what he did and took much pride in his work, his family, his community and hot rods, said his daughter, Michele. He personally answered calls even throughout the night for anyone who needed help or a tow. Mr. Fleischman was actively involved with the Sag Harbor Lions Club and served as president for some time. He loved to talk of his early childhood in Oceanside where he helped run his family’s candy store/luncheonette. It is here that he learned to “sleep standing up,” he would joke.

In his 20’s he moved to California and settled just next door to Andy Southard, Jr. another Oceanside car enthusiast and renowned photographer. This forged a long friendship and together they started a business punching louvers, painting and pin striping cars. He then went on to manage the service center of the Cadillac dealership in Southampton. Mr. Fleischman later moved to Sag Harbor and his long career at Sag Harbor Service Station began.

Mr. Fleischman could easily be described as affable. He loved talking with people and telling jokes, said the family. His smile was infectious, even his eyes twinkled when he so readily shared his joy. Each customer at his station was treated with much attention. He loved sharing stories of his family, his children, telling jokes all while putting gas in their car, checking the oil, checking tire pressure, washing windows, bringing a bone for the dog and a lollipop for the children. He was incredibly grateful for each day, the opportunity to work, raise a family and participate in society, said the family.

In 2008 he moved to Naples, Florida. After a very sudden and rapid decline, he passed away in the care of Hospice. Despite Mr. Fleischman’s diagnosis of Lewy Body Disease he always remained positive. Mr. Fleischman often said “I had no room for negative thoughts or actions” and “I’m happy to be on the green side of the grass.”

Mr. Fleischman was predeceased by his parents Kay and Aaron Fleischman. His body was laid to rest at Beth Israel Cemetery in Woodbridge, New Jersey. He is survived by his first wife Marilyn Fleischman of Tamarac, Florida, his second wife Karen Raphael of Verona New Jersey; their children Lisa Rebele (Michelson) of Lake Ronkonkoma, Cindy Snook (Fleischman) of Melbourne, Florida, Andy Michelson of Newport, Rhode Island, Michele Dean (Fleischman) of Naples, Florida; his grandchildren, Craig and Megan Schiavoni, Garrett Snook, Tate, Teghan and Tanner Michelson, Saiba and Naomi Dean and his brothers Barry Fleischman of Wainscott and Boyton Beach, Florida and Zou Zou of Amsterdam, Holland.

He was a loving father, husband, brother, grandfather and friend to all, said the family. He will be fondly remembered and greatly missed.


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7 Responses to “Kenneth Paul Fleischman”

  1. Fred and Mary Ann Riley says:

    Our thoughts and prayers to the family. We moved from Sag Harbor in 1986, but remember Kenny with fondness. He was a good neighbor, and friend.
    Fred and Mary Ann Riley

  2. I worked for kenny & Karen for almost 6 years until he retired they took me in during a difficult time in my life they became my adopted parents Kenny and I spent 9-10 hours a day at the shop working together we got very close I can’t believe he’s gone I miss him so much I will never forget him and what he has done for me if it wasn’t for him and his family I probably wouldn’t be writing this I love you Kenny and miss you so much Lisa tells me your Happy and I believe her peace be with you my great friend

  3. Barbara Schmidt says:

    Have been away from Sag Harbor since 2004, but I will always Remember Kenny and what a good friend he was to my late Husband, Fred, and me. He was also the best mechanic around. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends, and I for one, will never forget him. A very good man.

  4. cindy fleischman snook says:


    As I read this my eyes have filled with tears.

    I miss you so dad and I will always love you.

    You will ALWAYS be with me……
    Thank you for being the very best dad a daughter could have ever had.

    Love you Always

  5. Erik Fleischman says:

    What a great tribute to my favorite cousin ever. You can’t imagine how much I miss you, cousin Kenny. You made all of our lives a little more interesting.

  6. cindy capalbo says:

    what a nice article. kenny was a great man- and always had a funny joke or two or three to tell me when i ran into him. his smile would light up the room. rest in peace Kenny.

  7. ZouZou says:

    Kenny was a great man – because his heart is so big – His joy was there,. his kindness, his willingness to help – the twinkle of his eyes -his jokes – his real desire to make his surroundings, his friends, his family , his world a better place.. – His positivity has always been and will always be an extraordinary inspiration for me..
    In this lifetime, I have been truly blessed to have him as such an inspiration. … … I would be talking to him on the phone and suddenly he would stop me in my tracks with his words that came from his amazing heart… ” I have no place in my body for negative thoughts” Boom ! Direct from his loving soul –
    I have been truly blessed to have him as my brother.,,,Kenny – You are and always will be a wonderful part of my heart, I love you very much

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